‘Gareeb beta ko kaun pyaar karta hai?’:Viral video opens tough talk on men’s mental health

A recently shared video on Instagram has sparked discussions regarding the emotional welfare of men in India and the pressures associated with being the primary breadwinner in families. The clip, created by user director-dayal, titled “Gareeb beta toh maa-baap ko bhi achha nahi lagta,” reflects on the disparity in familial affection based on financial contributions.

In the short video, Dayal recounts a personal experience shortly after resigning from his job and returning home. He contrasts the affection he received while earning an income—illustrated by his mother serving him extra rotis at dinner—with the noticeable change in treatment following his job loss. When he later requested more food, he perceived an impersonal response from his father, which made him feel undervalued. He emphasizes that respect for men appears to be closely linked to their ability to provide financially.

The video has elicited various responses, with many viewers expressing empathy and sharing their own experiences of being judged during financial hardships. Some comments referenced the societal perception that a man’s worth is tied to his economic contributions, echoing sentiments from comedians like Chris Rock about unconditional love.

This discourse has led to broader conversations about emotional vulnerability among men, particularly within their families.